Answers to 10 questions that will help you discover the best in yourself
1. What makes you proud of yourself?
When you follow your heart and intuition, people will not always agree with you. When you find something that makes you happy, not everyone around you will be glad for you. When you treat others with constant kindness, some people question your motives, when you are naturally honest, some people try to use your honesty against you, and when you look for the good in everyone you meet, some take advantage of that.
Do not let any of these people prevent you from doing any of this. These people are not essential, but what really matters is how you feel about yourself and the life you have lived. You will ask yourself one question: "Am I proud of the way you have lived?" Work hard to for your answer to be "yes."
2. How can you make a positive difference?
Do the right thing even when it seems pointless, and live your life holding on to love and truth. It may seem challenging to stop the bully and deceitful people in the short term, but they always lose their power in the end, as love and honesty always lift you to the top.
Keep spreading the good in the world, and do one good deed after another, as the little good deeds accumulated little by little are what change the world in the end. You may never see the full impact of your positive actions. Still, all people will notice them, and they will appreciate them in time. If you do nothing, you will have no impact, and positive change will inevitably not happen at all.
3. What are you trying to achieve and why?
Find the answer to this simple question, and remind yourself of it every day. You must know the specific reason that undoubtedly drives you to do what you do. You can not succeed without a goal and a reason to flourish.
When you have a reason to accomplish something, you have a real purpose worth your efforts. When you link that reason to the desired result, you can discipline and persevere to achieve the task, so give yourself a good sense, and you will find a way to succeed.
4. What obstacles stand in your way?
If you don't know what stands in your way, this is an obstacle, but if you know what it is, it is just a challenge. Observe and evaluate the challenges you face, where are the opportunities for long-term progress. You are in the best place to make the most of these opportunities because you know exactly where you are, where you want to go, and what resources are available to you.
Remember that the most off-road often lead to the top, and the best way to overcome obstacles is to fight them, and then you must face your challenges with all your strength. The easiest way to overcome them is to crush them, as you know what to do and why, so you can plan confidently towards your challenges until you reach the other side of your road.
5. What's next?
Remember that there is nothing more wrong than sitting down and doing nothing just because you can do little, so start small, take a small step, and if you can't take a small action, take a little effort, do what you can with the resources you have now, and move in a positive and productive direction.
The best thing about overwhelming success is that it comes step by step. The flash of success, no matter how dim, enhances the motivation you need to achieve more success. Each positive step forward prepares you to take the next step.
6. What are your flaws and mistakes?
You will never be perfect, and you will not always be right, so admit your flaws and mistakes and accept them. Let the difference between you and others be that you have obtained and transcended your flaws, while others are desperately trying to hide their flaws, and that you have corrected your mistakes and learned from them, while others are still denying their mistakes, and do not fall victim to the illusion of ideals, and do not escape from reality, but face your flaws and invest in them to achieve your personal growth.
7. What problems do you need to solve with yourself?
When you feel lonely, you look around for someone to fill the void in your life. You assume that your loneliness stems exclusively from being alone, but once you find a friend, it doesn't take long before realizing that you still have a void in your life. You still feel lonely and unhappy about it. So, you blame your partner and move on to someone else and then another. This situation may last months or even years until you are finally ready to face the truth.
The truth is that a partner, or even just a friend, can add a lot of beauty to your life, but they cannot fill the void inside you. You are alone and responsible for the satisfaction you experience. If you feel lonely when you are alone, it means that you are not good at accompanying yourself, and then you need to work on your relationship with yourself first. If you deny it, you are deceiving your mind and ensuring your loneliness continues while moving from one failed relationship to another.
8. How do you burden yourself?
If you feel that your load is heavy, perhaps it is time to lighten it. You can easily give up a lot of burdens if you are willing to do so, so start leaving your fears behind. Fears fill your mind only with negativity. Instead, do something constructive, and participate in something that interests you and takes your mind away from what it occupies.
Then, let go of the grudge. Grudges take away your energy and time without any positive return. Once you achieve the above, it is time to stop pretending that you know everything. Instead of trying to prove yourself, open your mind and senses to new and real opportunities. Before you are ready, finally give up your impatience. One of the most crucial factors in your personal growth is your patience to wait for the right moment and your courage to invest it in the best ways.
See how easy it is to let go of stressful negativity. Once you realize the weight of what you are carrying, do yourself a favor today and ease your burdens.
9. How have you celebrated your recent progress?
Focus on the progress you've made, the next positive step, the bright side of where you once were, where you are now, and where you're heading, and don't think about yesterday's failures, but about today's potential success.
Be proud of yourself. The fact that you keep trying is impressive. You have achieved your satisfaction with yourself as you crush your fears with every new effort you make, and you may not have reached where you want to be. Still, you are making progress, and gradually you will achieve your goal even if you feel like you are rotating in your place, as you are not. No effort will be wasted to achieve something worthwhile, no matter how slow your progress is as long as you do not give up.
10. What do you like about your life?
Life is volatile. You will inevitably go through difficult times, but it is important to keep things in perspective when you go through them. The strength and growth of your personality and the quality of your life are determined by how you respond to the inevitable difficulties of life. Believing that you are a victim of certain circumstances is wrong.
Transient daily circumstances, whether good or bad, are little threads in the overall fabric of your life's events, and each adds to your personal growth. After all, the quality of your life is your personal choice. You can choose to let disappointments paralyze you, or you can choose to rise from suffering and enjoy your most precious gift, which is life itself.
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