Note: This article is adapted from Erin Falconer's blog, where she talks about public speaking techniques.
I asked my mother to dress me in any dress that could pass as a costume from my collection. Ultimately, she chose the dress I most hated.
At school, the girls wore extravagant fairy costumes with expensive, shimmering satin dresses adorned with feathers and floral accents on their shoulders. On the other hand, the boys opted for police officer outfits, carrying plastic guns.
As the teacher called our names, I stepped forward when she mentioned mine. She asked, "What role will you play?" I had no clue which character would match my costume. Nonetheless, I replied, "I'll play any role you ask of me. All I want is to participate."
She suggested I play Radha, Lord Krishna's wife, saying it matched my dress. I confirmed when asked if I knew the role since I had read about it before.
She asked if my speech was ready. However, uncertain of her exact meaning but unwilling to withdraw from the competition without participating, I nodded affirmatively.
She praised my effort and asked me to prepare myself to step onto the stage. Then, she gently tapped my shoulder and left.
Once I got on stage, I had no idea what to say, but I was certain I wanted to be up there. Following a few students who showcased their acts, my turn finally arrived.
I stepped onto the stage before hundreds of onlookers and my teachers mustering the courage to speak. I glanced at my two younger siblings, watching from the stage corner, and began, "I'm Radha, Lord Krishna's wife and closest companion. We live in Vrindavan city, where Krishna is revered as the world's finest flutist. You'll find our tales in books and our images in temples." I indulged in speaking until my teacher signaled that my time was up.
I left the stage amidst applause, waiting with my friends for the results. Winning had never been on my mind before, so I wasn't prepared for how I'd feel if I did. But soon enough, the results were announced, and I was surprised to receive the third prize.
I didn't know what to do, but my teacher took my hand and led me to the stage to receive my first prize.
Later, she told me that the judges admired my speech and confidence. Despite surpassing my time limit, I was among the winners. Since then, I've excelled in debates, speeches, and contests, finding joy on stage.
Contrary to that, my husband feared public speaking. While he significantly overcame his fears through his skills, he attributes much of his success to my assistance.
Through my experiences and approach with my husband, here are three simple methods to master public speaking. If you're hesitant to speak on stage, follow these fundamental yet practical steps to prepare yourself:
3 Simple Steps to Enhance Your Public Speaking Skills
1. Confidence
Be confident when speaking to a group or on stage. See yourself as the most knowledgeable among them; focus on your words, not their thoughts. It's better if they form an opinion about you while you speak than not speaking at all.
If the audience's opinion doesn't align with yours, embrace your distinct viewpoint. Having a different voice is valuable. If unsure of your words, focus on your thoughts—they'll guide you right, even if your phrasing isn't perfect.
2. Imagine Being On An International Stage
Each time I took the stage for speeches or debates, I envisioned myself on an international stage. I believed my speech would be exceptional, grabbing headlines, and saw myself as a world leader.
Consider this as your chance to voice your opinions. Your views might inspire someone, offer you a job, or even seek your mentorship.
3. Choose Your Words Wisely
That's the key. When you're confident in speaking the truth, addressing millions won't daunt you because you know you're delivering it accurately.
Speak not just to fill the air, but when informed and convinced, others should hear. Stay knowledgeable and share politely, as politeness often aligns with truth.
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