7 Tips to Empower Yourself
The difficult time that businesses are going through right now is an excellent opportunity for self-development. As the renowned author and motivational speaker Jim Rohn famously advises, "Work harder on yourself than you do on your job."
7 Tips to Empower Yourself
Self-empowerment leads to positive changes in your private life and expands your sphere of influence, which benefits those around you and your work. Here are some tips in this regard:
1. Be Honest
People value transparency and honesty as gateways to effective communication. However, true transparency with others begins by knowing yourself. As the saying goes, "Those who are honest with themselves can lead others." People seek out connections with like-minded people who can impart knowledge to them. Therefore, you must be honest with yourself before genuinely influencing others.
We all have unique talents that we should harness to positively impact our lives and the lives of those we interact with. However, we often limit ourselves. The phrases, habits, and experiences we absorbed during our upbringing can continue to shape our self-perception and focus even into the present.
One of the best ways to alter your thinking is to list your strengths and weaknesses, along with aspects you appreciate about yourself and your life. However, not many people freely express their self-love or their positive traits. The more you cultivate self-love and appreciate what you represent, the more genuine your connections with others become.
But what are your go-to behaviors, hobbies, or pursuits when you start thinking negatively? Look at your weaknesses list and write down what you hope to change.
2. Ask Effective Questions
Review your list and start asking open-ended, effective questions, such as:
- Why does this matter to me?
- What is the cost I'm willing to pay to overcome my weaknesses?
- Who would be the best mentor for me?
- What skills can I acquire?
- Which books can I read, and would listening to podcasts benefit me?
- Who can I include in my acquaintance circle?
- What behavior can I change to continue growing and improving?
Put these questions on paper and give your subconscious time to review the responses.
Remember that time is our most valuable asset. The Pareto principle states that we devote 20% of our time to tasks that produce 80% of the outcomes. Ultimately, no matter how great we are, we cannot master everything. Put off everything else and concentrate more on that crucial 20% of your goals if you truly want to empower yourself and advance personally.
3. Commit to a Specific Set of Morning and Evening Routines
Pay attention to how you start and end each day. The world's most successful and influential people are those who wake up early, carve out time for themselves, and engage in specific activities that pave the way for a productive day. Among these are the noteworthy activities listed by Hal Elrod in his book The Miracle Morning, which includes Silence, Affirmations, Visualization, Exercise, Reading, and Scribing, represented by the acronym SAVERS in English. The initials of the following:
Setting aside ten minutes each morning for each activity will help you spend your day as planned.
Start each morning by closing your eyes for a minute and a half, visualizing your ideal day, others' reactions and interactions, and the impact it will ultimately have on you. You’ll see how your day will proceed almost exactly as you envisioned.
At the end of the day, close your eyes and consider your accomplishments. You may have made it through a work-related task or been punctual for an appointment. Jot down these successes.
Keep a journal with margins where you can write down your worries and key questions each night before bed. By writing down your thoughts and issues that bother you at the end of the day, you can clear your mind and fall asleep peacefully.
Some of these effective questions include: What did I learn today? Who did I help? How did I contribute to my company’s growth? What am I grateful for in my life? This exercise helps pave the way for a productive tomorrow.
4. Understand That Income Equals Value
In every job, the relationship between value and income is directly proportional. As a result, consider what you provide to your staff members to help them feel appreciated. Look them up and friend them on LinkedIn, Facebook, and other social media platforms. Be informed about their lives and affairs and demonstrate a sincere and genuine interest in them.
Instead of concentrating only on work-related duties, build connections with your staff to make them feel more valuable and increase their trust in you. This is known as the "experiential economy," which is why it is so important to personalize your services.
5. Invest in Others’ Skills
Invest in others whenever you can by mentoring, coaching, or rewarding hard work. You will always gain from this, either directly or indirectly. We often take on others’ tasks thinking we are helping them or because doing it ourselves seems easier than teaching them. However, this approach hinders their growth. A true leader builds other leaders.
Therefore, the best approach to empowering yourself and others is theoretical learning, putting it into practice, and then passing it on to others. When you learn something, you might grasp it but are unlikely to retain it. When you apply it practically, you experience the most successful practices through trial. However, by teaching others, you hone your skills, refine your experience, and enable others to do it themselves.
6. Measure Your Impact
Measuring your impact on those you influence and keeping an eye on work performance, accomplishments, and their observable success are the best ways to determine whether your efforts are paying off and how well you are empowering yourself in reality.
Ask them for feedback to develop yourself, and strive to reach a high level of unconscious competence. As a result, you develop an instinctive ability to carry out your business with the least effort possible.
7. Keep Growing
Grow as a person to make sure people follow you. Surround yourself with positive people to improve your experiences and achieve more success. This will only happen once you grow personally.
You will be filled with joy when your day is crowned with success at every moment, knowing you were on the right track and that others have done their duties perfectly and behaved well towards you. Then, you will be sure that your entire day is productive.
Never underestimate your mistakes—they are crucial to your success and offer wonderful chances for personal development. When something goes wrong, people respect and forgive those who are open and honest with them.
Empowering yourself is a fundamental pillar for achieving your life's ambitions, including fulfilling dreams, reaching goals, forging fruitful connections, and making a lasting impression on others. Therefore, you will receive multiple returns on your investment if you devote the same amount of time and energy to your personal development as you do to your career.